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Dear Annie: When caring for a friend turns into carrying the whole load

Dear Annie: I have a friend, "Marcy," whom I've known for about six years through a mutual group of acquaintances. She was very kind when my mother was alive, often coming over to help, and she has also helped with my kids. Over time we became friends. Marcy is single, on disability and doesn't ...

Car Talk: Broken key in ignition will require some searching

Dear Car Talk: Help. My brother has a 2010 Saab with a replacement key that broke off in the ignition. We can't get it out, so we can't start the car. What should we do? The man who made this replacement key for us cannot be found. My brother is trying to bypass the computer chip and is ...

Dear Annie: A note on coping with bullies and hardships

Dear Annie: This letter describes my life experiences with bullies and how I managed to succeed. I was a scrawny, pimple-faced little kid growing up, had a weak voice, got fists shaken in my face while being held to the ground several times, was held underwater in swimming class and nearly ...

To Your Good Health: Weighing the benefits of laparoscopic surgery for hernias

DEAR DR. ROACH: I am a 70-year-old male with a large inguinal hernia on the right side. I have consulted two different surgeons, and both surgeons recommend taking care of the condition at the earliest convenience. The surgeon who specializes in robotic surgery recommends laparoscopic surgery ...

Dear Annie: Estranged sister reaches out to my kids

Dear Annie: Almost 15 years ago, my older sister removed me from her life after a series of messy arguments. At the time, she just stopped taking my calls and waited for me to leave family functions before going. She told our three siblings and mother that she didn't want me in her life. She ...

To Your Good Health: Long-term NSAID use can often lead to stomach damage

DEAR DR. ROACH: I am a woman in my 80s. Is it safe to take 400 mg of ibuprofen a day? I take it with breakfast. I never take more than this. -- J.S.B. ANSWER: Ibuprofen has the potential for many serious side effects, but most of them are unusual, especially at the low dose you are taking. ...