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Dear Annie: Holding firm on boundaries with estranged family

Dear Annie: I am a woman in my early 40s, living several states away from the town where I grew up. My relationship with my parents has always been complicated, especially with my mother, and for the last 25 years I have also been estranged from my older sister. She still lives near my parents, ...

Splitting mental load makes for healthier marriage

By ANNIE LANE Syndicated columnist Dear Annie: My husband is a wonderful man in many ways, but lately I feel more like the household manager than his wife. We both work full time, yet somehow I am still the one remembering birthdays, scheduling appointments, keeping track of the ...

Rise in cholesterol level may be test-to-test variation

By KEITH ROACH, M.D. Syndicated columnist Dear Dr. Roach: I’m a 74-year-old male in good health. My lab work has been pretty consistent over several years. My cholesterol level is always below 200 mg/dL with a high HDL (80 mg/dL). All of these results over the years have been done at ...

‘Buttered’ knife can get 2nd use, too

By HELOISE Syndicated columnist Dear Heloise: I’m not done with that butter knife! After making a sandwich, I like to set the knife on the edge of the sink instead of sending it straight to the dishwasher. A knife with just a light smear of butter on it often comes in handy again later for ...

Tough choice between peace, endless battling

By ANNIE LANE Syndicated columnist Dear Annie: I have read your responses to letters about barking dogs and neighborhood noise, and I appreciate the calm, compassionate way you approach these conflicts. You encourage people to start with empathy, assume good intentions and try to work ...